About Forgiveness
In Raj Shamani’s Aamir khan interview, I realized that most of us are not actually angry with someone when we shut them off from our life, its just our brain getting rewired and stuck on the fact that we want them to know that we are hurt and if we get back together so easily they won’t know how much it hurt us.
My take is this resolution step happens after some time (naturally, depends on persona), but should not happen for a long time if the person is trying hard to get you back, or you get vibes/instincts from them that they are really sorry about it.